The year 2021 will personally be very important to me for the rest of my life. I have gone through so much, learned so much about life and the reality, and what I learnt has changed my life. When I look back at the version of me at the beginning of the year and look at the version of me now I see how much of a strong, matured, sensible and wise person I have become. Maybe I still couldn’t get rid of my short temper and triggers but I believe time must heal everything. The person I’ve become is a whole new individual and I am proud of her. To be honest, this one would have been the roughest year of my teenage period.
But if talking generally, it has been a rough year for everyone. Everyone’s life was changed due to this pandemic which also affected the economic aspects of the world. I changed and the world around and everyone else in it changed as well.
Therefore, I believe the word of the year is Change.
I was given the most memorable experience of love this year and then heartbroken at the same time and the people who know wgat I’ve been through also know that it wasn’t any ordinary heartbreak, rejection or break up for that matter because you need to be in a relationship for that but I was never in one. It was brutal for any person of my age. But then even if it hurt I survived and I was strong throughout. Then comes the part of my family problems…..yeah a girl kf my age can have that. I am not from a very normal family but rather a very dysfunctional one. My parents for that matter weren’t very supportive and nice either. And again I was strong enough to keep my sanity in these insane circumstances.
The rest of the world was facing something very similar in general as well. There was the insane politics, fight for food, for survival. Scarcity of vaccine for Covid-19 especially in India due to the massive population and some other political aspects. People were dying and many lost the people they loved. It was brutal. In the middle of that the countries were having conflicts and planning to start wars.
The world around us CHANGED FOREVER. Even if things become better they can never be the same. Whatever we go through in our life leaves an impression on us that can never be removed.
Therefore I hope and pray for a better 2022 as we come to the end of this year which was filled with heartbreaks, sorrows and Changes.….
Happy New Year Everyone….ā¤š„³š
The Urban Girl 