First of all, there is no finally moving on because even if you set yourelf free from that person there is always going to be that special feeling, those special memories that are gonna come back from time to time. But the most important thing is to be able to finally realize what’s worth waiting for and what isn’t. This was a recent breakthrough that I had myself after a year of ups and downs (well mostly downs) in that situationship.
” It gets worse before it gets better…..” as some people say, is exactly what happens here as well. It will hurt everyday knowing that there isn’t anything you can do to fix things or make yourself feel better. You’re gonna miss the old days, think why all of it ever happened but the truth is everything happens for a reason atleast it was for me. A simple and caring man on the outside but a complex, arrogant, stubborn, egomaniac man on the inside, on the other side was me who was a confident, high-minded, independent girl on the outside but literally the definition of innocence, a humble, social, crazy yet passionate one and the biggest fool of the year ’cause I couldn’t see what everyone saw coming. I guess love really makes you blind. But the thing is you don’t always make the same mistakes again and again, instead you learn, you grow and you mature to be hit by the hard reality every now and then. That’s life!
At last, to answer your questions…….. you know when you’ve moved on when you will feel lonely but you will be content in it ’cause you’ll realize that you’re better off as emotionally independent than relying on someone else for your happiness. You’ll be anxious when you see everyone finding their happily ever after but you know that your time will come and you’ll find love again and you’ll be matured enough to understand that everyone isn’t going to reject you because of your flaws but neither will everyone accept.
So, choose wisely, be happy and live in the moment and appreciate life….
The Urban Girl 