Love itself is such an easy word but it is one of the most complicated thing that can happen to one’s life. Love can be beautiful but it can be more horrifying than beautiful. If you think I wrote this from a film dialogue or book then you’re wrong. This is nothing but my own experience in love. But in my case all I have ever gotten from love is some memories which are just a modification of nightmares and then comes the hurt.
But don’t get scared, because when finally the one who gives you the love you deserve arrives that is worth everything, even the hurt you will get from many bad choices in partners. So stop getting all anxious, put on a smile and let’s figure out if you’re also in love or not. Sounds exciting, right?
♡ When you are in love, you feel their pain as yours.
♡ You do everything possible to make them smile, even the stupidest thing feels worth their smile.
♡ Everything small thing they do for you makes you happy.
♡ As we know, love is blind so we tend to forgive that person on the wrong they do to you.
♡ You support them in their choices even if you are not on the same page as them and you don’t judge them.
♡ You can’t help but stare at them continuously and not in a creepy way but which shows clear love and affection for that person.
♡ Being with them is the most comfortable you can ever be and they tend to make you happy when they comfort you in your hard times.
♡ Last but not the least, you accept them the way they are, in spite of their worst flaws and you don’t want to change them unless for their benefit.
Hope you got cleared up about your feelings. But be careful, love makes you stupid as well😉
Jeans are probably the most comfortable clothes that are meant for both men and women. But let’s just talk about women’s here. To be honest, I don’t find skinny jeans that comfortable but it’s a myth that those are the types of jeans that look good on women. There are so many types of other jeans out there and you just have to select those that are meant for you, as I mentioned before in my previous blog mentioned down here, that your clothes are a way of expressing who you are without having to speak.
Now let’s discover some new types of clothes for our wardrobe so, shall we?
● Bootcut Jeans from the 90s
This one is really making its spot straight from the 90s to the 20s. Really comfortable but in an exceptional style the bootcut jeans has won hearts of almost everyone.
Bootcut Jeans
Source: Google
● Undone Hems
The undone hems give you a classic street style look which is indeed chic and trendy. You can find it in many other categories as well which makes it more accomodating to any style and occasion.
Undone Hems
Source: Google
● Flare Jeans
Tired of skinny jeans? Go for the stylish flare jeans which is best for people who carry most of their weight in the hips and thighs. This was a hit back in the 90s and is again in trend which has made many happy.
Flared Jeans
Source: Google
● Baggy Jeans
Is tight clothes not the exact definition for your style? Is comfy more your type? Then yes, you’re right. Baggy Jeans us the ultimate definition of comfort style. I personally love it.
Baggy Jeans
Source: Google
● Boyfriend Jeans
The chic style of boyfriend Jeans gives you an outstanding look and at the same time provides you with the relaxation. I personally love comfy style so I kind of love this one as well. As the name suggests the Jeans is nothing but a modification of men’s garments.
Boyfriend Jeans
Source: Google
Hope you guys find it knowledgeable for your fashion closet. Let me know what type of contents you would like more.
Thank you for reading and keep being fashionable!💖👠
Fashion has always been a way to express myself without being to speak. The way one dresses can tell us a lot about who they are or their mood or the occasion, now doesn’t it? Yes, it does. Well, to be honest until last year it wasn’t like this for me but recently I find myself expressing more through the way I dress, my fashion sense has noticeably improved and the more I dress good it makes me feel good and confident but more importantly myself.
My style changes everyday. I would say it’s casual chic.
-Chiara Ferragni, Fashion Influencer
Now, the main question is from where do I find these inspirations for fashion from? Good question, huh! Now, if I am gonna be honest, it first came through my love for travel and exploring places. Some of you might be thinking that for the last one year none of us had a great opportunity to travel because of the pandemic situation but that is just an excuse for not exploring. In this fast paced world where technology is so advanced, I think anything is possible. So, let’s see when, where and how I got my inspiration for fashion.
1. Travel and Exploration
As I mentioned earlier that I didn’t quite have an opportunity for travel in the last one year because I was quite busy keeping myself alive, jokes apart, I used to find places from Google and Google maps then used to see pics and vlogs of those places one by one. Now, my favourite places are New York and Paris – two of the four Fashion Capitals of the World. Amusing, right? It helped me get a better idea about different kinds of styles, clothes, accessories which was mostly impacted by the ambience and environment. Like , in New York the atmosphere is very busy, fast paced and a bit workaholic but the special thing is that everyone works there with passion. So that is what influence there styles which by my observation is one of a very comfortable yet classy and fashionable one. On the other hand, Paris is more aesthetic kind of because it is influenced by the highly rich culture and history of France. The flowers, the monuments, the art work, the romantic weather is a different feeling altogether.
Ultimately, this how I get influenced by the culture and trends of different places and exploring them makes you acquainted to the type of style.
Source: Instagram
2. Instagram
Instagram is trending and so is everything which is being posted by everyone. Social Media is the means of making change in this world because today’s generation is the most influenced by social media where everyone has their own opinions and ways. Watching random style trends, following famous fashion magazine pages like Vogue, Cosmopolitan and then there are the celebrities has improved my idea of fashion a lot. Always finding what feels like me or rather finding myself there was the main motive. It helped me keep up with the fashion trends in the world.
3. Google
Well, as we all know Google always answer to all our questions and again today it proved itself. Reading fashion blogs and finding vlogs has also contributed to my passion for fashion, now where do I find these, yes you’re damn right- from Google. Knowing about styles throughout so many generations, keeping up with fashion trends, suggestions for one outfit in different ways, which online store to find which outfit it has always amazed me. It has always been amazing thought, hasn’t it? Oh! Who am I kidding.
Hope you guys enjoyed this blog and may you find the inspiration that I got for fashion.
We Teens face a lot of problems in this time of our life because this is the transitioning phase where we face a lot of difficulties and tackling them is something we learn from these experiences. We have the worst of all types incidents in our life during this phase but also the best ones….
The famous sitcom F.R.I E.N.D.S is a refreshing and humorous story of six reckless young people living in Manhattan, New York. There life is all about how much their friends have been through all those rough and tough times and yet their unbreakable bond is cherished throughout the show. Living in the New York city without parental guide is far more difficult than said but when you get relations that are even better than family what else do you need. Juggling life, love, work they enjoy every moment.
What I personally think about this show is that the things which were showed us in this sitcom, portrays very important message and life lessons. It has taught all of us how to live life to the fullest even through the hardships of life. I personally watch this show whenever I feel down even today as a therapy for whenever I turn all aggressive and can’t take the load of shit in my life. The best part about rewatching this show is I laugh the same amount everytime as much as the first time. Their day to day life brought smile to our faces even in the crisis times whether in professional or personal situation. I always have wanted what the six of them- Monica, Chandler, Joey, Rachel, Ross and Phoebe had.
Personally, Chandler was my favourite character throughout the show because of his crazy sarcasm and myself being a sarcastic person I literally related to it so much. Then comes my favourite couple and again it was Monica and Chandler. Nowadays couples like them are very few and the bond they shared was precious, it had loyalty, understanding, care, love and most importantly tge bond of friendship. But well if talked about chemistry then definitely Ross and Rachel. They had it the most and they were on fire when together. The sweet and innocent Joey was a very special character and a big entertainer. It keenly observed Joey had the best comebacks to all situations and that is also a spark which was added to the character. Quite similarly, Phoebe was the badass of the show. The way she could keep those crackhead in control, gosh! That’s a tough girl’s thing and she definitely was one and she was also the one who had experienced the worst things other than any character on F.R.I E.N.D.S.
Well, these were my view. Hope you find it helpful and believe me this is the best show ever. This show is meant to live forever and its never gonna get old. This is a must watch. Do let me know how you liked tge show in the comment box below.
TheMonsoons has always the season of love which reminds us of the romance, the affection, the passion which is stored in the feeling of love. Whenever we see the tiny drops of rain touching the ground and suddenly there’s this downpour, we all fantasize how it would have looked fooling along, loving, hugging and kissing the person you love would feel like, then there’s this whole romantic scene of some movie that we place ourselves in. We all hope how it would feel to be making love the way Rahul made to Arohi standing on the streets while it’s drenching in Aashiqui 2 while Tum hiho is playing in the background.
Well, well I myself know how delightful it feels to even imagine that. So, I hought why not help you guys out by listing some romantic songs from all time which could make you drown into the ocean of romantic imagination while watching it rain while sitting in front your window with a cup of coffee.
What are we waiting for? Let’s take a look at what I have in store for you….
Bollywood Songs for Monsoon
1. Tum hi ho from Aashiqui 2/ T-series Mixtape
2. Baarish from Half Girlfriend
3. Aaoge Jab from Jab We Met/ T-series Mixtape
4. Kabhi Jo Badal Barse ftom Jackpot/ T-series Mixtape
Recently I have been going through a lot of change and that is not all external thimg but it is internal as well. Once I read somewhere- “When an egg breaks from inside a life starts whereas when broken from outside a life ends.” This tells us that all great things begin from inside and that is a real motivation if you want a change in yourself and your life too. But beware that changing yourself does not mean having everything in life under your control because there are certain things in life that always go out of control and they happen for a reason so that you learn something.
Sometimes in life, a sudden situation, a moment in your time, can alter your whole life, forever changes the road ahead….
Bringing Change In Yourself Mentally
First of all, if you want to change yourself always start by making positive changes in your mentality and bringing a much better perspective to life. So, let’s see what changes they are-
● Learn to be Yourself
When bringing change you need to first start by accepting yourself the way you are, respecting yourself and forgiving yourself for the mistakes you made for which you had to suffer. Learning to be yourself is not as easy as it seems but you can always start by being honest with yourself.
● Always love yourself and be honest with yourself
The very next step you do is love yourself after accepting the fact that you have your own choices as a different individual. You can’t satisfy everyone so, be yourself and people who really love you will continue to love you by accepting your flaws. Everyday when you wakeup and look in the mirror and remind yourself that you are good and beautiful even with your flaws because that is what makes you different from others and makes you special.
● Accept other’s flaws and learn to respect their decisions
This is one of the things no one taught me but yet I learnt it the best. In India people really lack of the quality to respect other’s decisions and society forces their decisions. Whether a person is white or black, straight or gay, carrieristic or housewife, wears western or traditional, has a child before or after marriage I think so these shouldn’t bother us unless they are not happy. Every person have their choices and this is their life and I think so they deserve to be treated well irrespective of their choices. But of course not if someone decide to take up the occupation of a serial killer….xoxo!
● Romanticize your precious Life
Nowadaus we often hear this phrase but we don’t really know what it’s trying to convey. Let me explain this- romanticizing your life means making your regular boring routine or doing normal mundane tasks in a way which gives it a twist and makes it interesting and enjoyable. Having adventures, trtying out things you like but never did before. This not only keeps your mental state healthy but also brings new colours in your life that you never even noticed before. It makes you appreciate the finer things in life.
● Taking care of your soul as equally as your body
Sometimes we get overwhelmed trying to be so positive and get exhausted. So, instead of trying again we quit but it was never the solution. If need be cry and let out your pain as feeling your emotions equally is also important, fall apart, be angry, think, have some coffee, have some good food, have a spa or facial, take cate of your body. Then, when you feel better, pull yourself together and start working on yourself again. Treat your soul nicely and let out the pain
● Knowing your Self-worth
We all are capable of a lot more than we ever realise. All we need for that to come out is a push over the edge. I still remember how soft type girl I used to be and after that one time when I was pushed over the edge and now you won’t find someone bolder than me. It was like the all new me was that version that I was meant to be. Things happen for a reason. So, never settle for less because you are worth the best and reminding yourself of that everyday is very important.
● Letting go of things that don’t serve you or anyone you love anymore
This is one of the things that I learned the hard way. Not everyone is meant to stay and neither can you do something to change that so just leave it. Leaving things or people is not always a bad thing because toxic people can harm you because they are not there for zero influence. In my life also I had to accept that I can’t change people and lost some people whom I loved a lot but they were just a bad influence and made me feel like I was not good the way I was and influenced me to be someone I wasn’t. But you can’t always do that, like in case of a family member you just can’t leave. So, I would recommend that try to make them understand bur if they still don’t then just accept that but in my case I just wrapped myself away from them and hat is the reason I am alone most of the time but it’s better to be alone than be with people who don’t understand you.
● Start chasing your Dreams
The one thing that can keep you motivated and keep you going is chasing your dreams. Keep yourself busy and you will notice nothing really bothers you anymore. When you dream of the beautiful future you want, nothing else will matter than to live. It actually activates a hunger for living your life to the fullest and makes you more open-minded and free spirited. Your dreams are the things that give you purpose in your life and life without purpose is not worth having it.
Sometimes the one thing we need for growth is the one thing we are afraid to do!
I hope that I could guide you guys to reach a better version of yourself and bring necessary changes your life for tge better. But remember that I can only guide you, the tough work has to be done by you only. You are the controller of your life so learn to take control of certain things in life.
Who doesn’t love watching movies? Everyone does but it should be of their taste. Well, if you are a fan of inspirational, biographical, romantic and funny movies then you might like the movies that I am gonna include in my top 10 favourite Bollywood movies. But before that I would like to say that Everyone have their taste so it might not be everyone’s favourite type but I am pretty sure that you are gonna love these movies.
Now enough of chitchat! Let’s see what surprises this list has for you all——-
1. Yeh Jawaani Hai Deewani
I could watch this movie again and again and again. This movie has things I personally relate to. But to be honest I didn’t find Naina’s character as the one of my type but instead Bunny and Aditi was some sort of a big inspiration to me. Many will now say that of course Aditi because Aditi was also worthless and Bunny was unstable but I don’t think so that’s true. Aditi loved her best friend Avi and did everything in her capacity to make him aware of Aditi’s feelings but despite of her hard efforts Avi didn’t seem to be bothered at all. So she decided to stop trying and live with the fact that Avi is never gonna love Aditi the way she wanted, so she was brave enough to accept and live with that and along the way she found true love from Taran. While Bunny was the loner type who was always hated the idea of marriage and settling down. He never looked for love in a person and instead found them in his dreams. He worked and travelled, he was independent and brave to live his life on his own terms. But again love is that only thing in the world which had the power to change someone. So, he couldn’t help but fell in love with the *TOPPER* Naina and chose to settle down.
Altogether this movie is a whole package of fun, inspiration and romance. This is about tge youth as the nane itself suggests. I am sure you are gonna love this one.
2. Dil Bechara
The movie is adopted from the English movie ” The Fault In Our Stars” and is starring late actor Sushant Singh Rajput and Sanjana Sanghi. This movie will bring tears into your eyes. Two Cancer patients, Manny and Kizie Basu who fall in love with each other. But both of them everyday struggle to live one more day and so they everyday experience the actual fear of the phrase we say during vows at the wedding -“Till death do us part.” The fear where they know that tomorrow when they wake up they might not see each other ever again as they are terrorized by the uncertainty of the days they might get to live because of the frightening disease cancer. What will happen? This movie is about how they live the numbered days of their lives together so tgat they regret a single moment.
This movie actually teaches us the importance of life. It also makes us realize how it feels to be terrorists by the uncertainty of the forever we say of our love and how precious every moment of our life is. We should always live our life to the fullest and not regret it.
3. The Sky is Pink
Aisha Chaudhary who is starred by Zaira Wasim, the daughter of Aditi starred by Priyanka Chopra and Nilen Chaudhary starred by Javed Akhtar, is a sweet, sassy and cool teenage girl who had to die just after roughly one year that she stepped to her adulthood thus lived for 18yrs. This movie is the story of her parents’ struggle for making the lifespan of Aisha who was affected by pulmonary fibrosis, a little longer and put all sorts of possibilities and experiences that people experience with time in their whole life to her doorstep ’cause time is that one thing that they were lacking of. In actual Aditi and Nilen had three kids- Tanya, Ishan (starred by Rohit Suresh Saraf) and Aisha. Tanya and Aisha died and Ishan is the only child who is healthy and alive. They first have to go to London to diagnose Aisha with problems relating to lack of immunity power making her vulnerable to germs. So she had to go through a bone marrow transplant but they couldn’t find a perfect match for which it needed to be followed by chemotherapy which showed its side effects years later after the transplant in the form of pulmonary fibrosis.
This movie is based on true story and ultimately is the perfect inspiration for living our life to the fullest as what matters is how you live the life because sooner or later the end point is death. This also conveyed an important message telling people to donate as if Aisha would have found a perfect match, she would have been around today happily living an almost normal life. The spunky and quirky girl narrating the life of her beautiful parents is a fun but a heart wrenching story is a must watch….don’t you think?
4. 3 Idiots
This movie is all about it’s comedy and facing the realities of life and in its way also finding the deep meaning of life and love. Three students of an engineering college- Rancho, Farhan and Raju make their way through one of the most thrilling, most memorable and at the same time the most vital stage of life which is their college life. The notorious incidents they cause there make everyone’s stomach pain by laughing. Though Rancho is an excellent student, Farhan and Raju somehow try and manage not to fail their semester. But Rancho opens their eyes by actually pointing out what is pulling them back and that is Farhan’s passion for becoming a wildlife photographer instead of an engineer and Raju living in the fear of future and not focusing on the present. While Rancho the most unromantic of them all manages to fall in love with the daughter of his college professor, Pia. Years after their college life Raju and Farhan start looking for their friend Rancho because of a promise they made.
This movie is all about the fair share of struggles in everyone’s life but what the problem is doesn’t matter until you believe in yourself and follow your dreams and passion. There is a lot to learn from this film. Highly recommended!
5. Chhichore
Another movie about reminiscing all the fun memories of one’s college and hostel life experience in one of the most prestigious engineering college in India. The movie is starring Sushant Singh Rajput as Anni, Shraddha Kapoor as Maya, Varun Sharma as Sexa, Naveen Polishetty as Acid, Tahir Bhasin as Derek, Tushar Pandey as Mummy and last of all Nalneesh Neel as Bevda. They all tell their college life experience of removing there very old tag of ‘Loosers’ and how it came with all the handwork, success and failures to inspire Anni and Maya’s only child Raghav who attempted suicide because of him not getting chance in the college after so much of hard work and dedication.
This film portrays the hard reality of today’s generation and how the pressure from the parents push the children to a point where they can’t find any other way but to end the life they have. Life comes with successes as well as failures and it is okay to accept your failures. This movie is a must watch for all the students and parents.
6. Aashiqui 2
A couples date night? Which movie to watch? Nothing can be better than watching a movie of hopeless romanticism with your lover. This movie was a hit for that very reason and yes of course it’s deep, meaning songs with awesome tunes and singing. The movies is starred by Shraddha Kapoor as Arohi and Aditya Roy Kapoor as Rahul. It shows what are the small sacrifices and adjustments Arohi had to made because of Rahul getting depressed and wasted. He was all trash to everyone but Arohi while he was also a big star singer like Arohi. But at last Rahul couldn’t watch Arohi give up her bright future and career in front of her so he decided to step back and push her away but Arohi never gave up and healed everything with her love but it costed her the bright career she had and Rahul couldn’t stand that. So, Aditya decides to leave everyone in this world by committing suicide. The story had a tragic end.
7. Neerja
The film Neerja is a biopic film based on the life of Neerja Bhanot a flight attendant who saved the lives of 340 passengers aboard Pan Am Flight which was hijacked at the Karachi Airport in 1986 by putting her life at stake. She showed an act of bravery and courage by saving so many lives yet she died and couldn’t save herself. She is an inspiration and role model to all of us. She not only made India proud but she uplifted the character and influence of women and showed that not only men are strong but women can be way more stronger. She is a inspiration to all of the women’s society all over the world. She is also the youngest and first woman recipient of the Ashok Chakra Award for Bravery.
This movie is heart wrenching but inspirational too. People of every age group can see it and this is how we xan spread the story of her bravery and keep her alive among us.
8. 2 States
Romantic movie lover? Yeah, you got it right. This movie is a perfect fit for that. Two people who fall in love in college or what we say as college sweethearts find difficulty to convince their family for marriage as the girl, Ananya starred by Alia Bhatt is Tamilian and the boy Krish starred by Arjun Kapoor is a Punjabi. Both tge families don’t agree on the inter-caste marriage due to the huge difference in their culture and social backgrounds. Their journey in convincing their parents to bless their relationship and fighting for their love is what makes it interesting. The fun and the love they had was special. It’s a must watch.
9. Half Girlfriend
Another Love story that will bring tears into your eyes. Some people say that this movie lacks of chemistry but the character never got a chance to show that because of the twisted story. The movies is starring Shraddha Kapoor as Ria Somani and Arjun Kapoor as Madhav Jha. Ria is a modern day rich girl from a metropolitan city who loves to sing and play guitar and had her dream of going to New York and sing there playing her guitar. On the other hand Madhav is completely different, he is from a Royal family of a village in Bihar but was not acquainted to the city lifestyle and had trouble adapting to it. Ria faces many difficulties and finds her escape in singing and Madhav the guy who has a crush on her. But they had a misunderstanding and Ria had to marry another guy because of her family. But this isn’t the end. The story is about the hurdles they face at their unification after Ria’s divorce.
10. Jab We Met
This film has its own share of romance and quirkiness at the same time. But people generally love this because of one of the main character, Geet played by Kareena Kapoor Khan. She is loved for her free spirit and her perspective towards life. While Aditya, another main character, played by Shaheed Kapoor, is a heartbroken business tycoon whose life was again filled with colours because of Geet and was inspired by her. While Aditya falls in love with her by that time it seems to be too late as Geet has already runaway with him in order to get married tge guy she loves Anshuman. But Aditya doesn’t know that Geet never got to marry her love as she was left alone by Anshuman. Fate seems to get them both aligned once again. Geet realises that she loved Aditya too.
This movie is a not only fun to watch but is romantic too. It’s songs are just evergreen and heart touching. I love this and pretty sure that you will too.
Hope you guys got some good movie suggestions to watch at your leisure time as we are getting more of it in this pandemic situation.
Kolkata also known as “THE CITY OF JOY” is a beautiful and fun place. But, the best part is Kolkata can be very romantic too and I promise that the memories you will spend with your love of life in this city will always have a special place in your heart.
Now, you might be wondering that how do I know so much about these, did I ever go dating or if I am in a relationship? Well, the answer to both the questions in no. But surely I know my city very well and from my experience this city can awaken love in the heartless too. If I consider myself as an example (though I am not a heartless), I never felt love from another individual so I never knew how it felt but this city didn’t fail in making me acquainted with the feeling of love.
So all the couples and the singles who are ready to mingle, let’s check out our spots without any further ado—–
1. Princep Ghat
Well, to be honest this one is my personal favourite. The atmosphere is so calm and romantic and you can visit this place in whichever time of the year and in whatever season. The sunsets here can make you fall in love and it is a very cultural place as well. A Ferri ride here is the best part. Enjoying the sunset on the boat or the beautiful lights of the Howrah Bridge and the Vidyasagar Setu is a mesmerizing experience.
Princep Ghat Source: GoogleFerri Ride on the banks of River Ganga Source: Google
2. Eco Park
People generally know this as a spot for winter outings and picnics but this place is very suitable for couples as well. It has many cafes inside it and resort as well. The Seven Wonders is what attracts everyone there -from the Eiffel Tower to Taj Mahal, the replicas are just stunning and during the night time it is even more beautiful with those lights. It is also a very known place for pre- wedding photoshoot.
Eco Park Source: Google
3. Victoria Memorial
It is a very famous Historical Architect and who thought it would become such a regular place for couples to hang out. Well, here it is. It is a very IG spot as well. People go there because of the picture perfect background and the beautiful gardens there. It is more beautiful at night when the lights are lit and it’s just so magical.
Victoria Memorial Source: Google
4. Patuli
It offers a lot for romabtic dates and couples. The decorations in the streets, the lights, tye lakes, the attractions altogether make up a perfect atmosphere for people. There is also a very beautiful park called tye Mayabono Biharini where you can also go for boating. The sunsets are beautiful and the lights make it more dreamy during the night.
Benubono Chaya Source: Google
5. Millennium Park
Another beautiful spot for couples is Millenium Park. Not only does it have a romantic vibe but also a fun ambience. I myself love visiting here during the winters, not that it’s inappropriate or not good but I get time to enjoy myself only in the winters. The wind by the banks of the river Ganga is just so relaxing and delightful. Nice place to hang out! You can also take a ride of tge river cruise and enjoy the sight seeing of the Howrah Bridge.
Howrah Bridge from Millenium Park Source: GoogleRiver Cruise Source: Google Cruise Launching from Millenium Park Source: Google
This is the end of the blog. Hope you guys found it useful. Please let me know your views (criticism accepted).
I am a women of this society who faces all those obstacles and negativity in real life every day which we only talk about. Well, I am a feminist and I can confidently say I am not a fake one. Belonging from a middle-class Indian orthodox family I know what it is to be deprived of freedom, whether it may be speech, choice, belief or to express oneself. Independence is the main goal of women in today’s generation and that is what is going to bring change in this corrupt society of ours.
Before I move further into the topic a small note for all the women out there-
We women have the capability and potential needed to win the world so you should never settle for less than you deserve. People come and people go and leave their opinions but we are not supposed to be living our life on someone else’s principles and terms. Enjoy life on your own standards and never let anyone restrict you from anything. Live your life the way you want and as you do, motivate other women to live a happy life on their own terms. Make mistakes, make bad choices but never let those stop you from doing what you want to do. It’s important we understand that we are equally contributing to this society as men and even more than that so there is no reason for not being respected equally. Love yourself andbe happy.
My Views On Equality of Women
Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women
I believe feminism comes when there is equality in society irrespective of colour, gender, race, religion, financial condition or job status. We deserve to be respected and the biggest thing is to give us the luxury to present our choices. We need to take decision for ourselves whether it is choosing what to wear or maybe what to say. We need to be provide the liberty to share our opinions and choose for ourselves.
In today’s generation I have seen many people who claim themselves to be feminists but when they see a women in shorts on the streets they not only judge her but also ill treat and disrespect her. So, yeah you can’t respect a person’s choice of clothing and then you claim yourself to be a feminist, well that’s ironic.
If a women is virgin, respect her choice. If a women is not virgin, respect her actions don’t judge her and call her a slut. If a women is pregnant before marriage remind her it’s a blessing and if a women decides not to have a child even after marriage try to understand her. If a women wears short dresses, look at her with respect and try not to be an asshole and if she decides to fully cover herself then also respect her and don’t question her sense of fashion or capabilities. Learn to respect people’s choices.
My Views On Lack of Sex Education and Periods
Sex Education is important as we need to know issues related to our sexuality, reproduction, sexual activities, pregnancy, birth control. We have been gifted with sexuality and exploring that doesn’t make you a bad or characterless woman or man. But while exploring it we need to know about certain things so that we don’t end up having unwanted pregnancy or sexual infections. It also gives us information on sexual violence which is vital nowadays as seen from the incraease in number of sexual assault cases.
When a women is on her periods and has a stain on her clothes don’t make a big issue out of it, though some people are making progress while some are just stuck with the ideas of people ages ago. It’s normal to have periods. This is natural and this natural occurrence is the very reason of our existence. I think sex education should be given in every school so that men also know about their source of existence. And who knows maybe it will help decrease the number of sexual assaults and help women increase their hygienic safety and take precautions which can prevent harmful diseases.
So, here’s the end of this blog. Hope you guys like it. If you did please share this as much as possible because people need to hear our story and people should know about the importance of women and feminism.
A special shoutout to allthose men who respect women and fight for their rights every now and then. They help the society to become a better place and help all of us grow as a civilized society. We are blessed to have you.❤
The Urban Girl 